面对位烈士的妈妈，我们还能无动于衷吗？

晴朗

不知道哪位兄弟在强国论坛里也转贴了~
http://bbs.people.com.cn/bbs/ReadFile?whichfile=8787262&typeid=14

ipfreak

for 范文, 老山女兵, 射天狼, 松毛岭, 老山之眸 and others:
"刑法192条规定，集资诈骗罪判得很重的"
i don't see how this 基金会 could become "非法集资". this 基金会 should not exist unless it is legally registered and operates under rules of the law of PRC. From the view point of western legal procedures, what we are doing now (她开一个个人帐户，大家就直接打入她的帐户) is considered as illegal and under no protection of laws.
"说句实话，即便民政部门正常程序批准，我觉得自己做什么“会长”的也不合适"
i hold highest regards for 老山女兵 and others here. but i think 老山女兵 could be one of those board directors to oversee the operation of this 基金会 (my undersatnding is that she runs own business). here is my 2 cents:
1) non-goverment 基金会. it should be registered with goverment as none-profit charity 基金会. its finance should be audited  by both goverment (like IRS in USA) and independent taxation firm so that the operation of this 基金会 could be monitored and protected by laws. bottom line, this 基金会 should be run based on the laws, not on morality. by that, it will prevent funding embezzlement or other kind of corruption. the targets of this 基金会 should be only those families of fallen sodilers and those veterans who really need help financially (beyond or besides the scope of the goverment welfare system). another alternative is that build a seperate trust fund under the wing of "hope" 基金会 but it would not be as flexible as we hoped since it will become a part of goverment infrastructure.
2) leadership. the 基金会 needs a board of directors to oversee its operation, hire CEO, CFO, etc. its memebers should be volunteers and work for free. prefer those high profiled or high regarded military veterans.
3) operation staff.this 基金会 should have some paid staff (full time and part time) such as  CEO, CFO, finance managers, case managers, lawyers and other necessary staff to get this 基金会 running as professional as possible. for those hired staff, it should give higher priority to those military veterans (even they could be disabled) as long as they are qualified for the positons. those paid staff should be willing to work for this 基金会 for meek salaries (national average salaries). but it should also recruit large number of volunteers for its daily operation; for example, a case manager (full time or part time) designated for a certain region may manage 500 cases and (s)he will amange a lot of volunteers to do daily routines such as making phone calls, verifies claims, paper works, data entries, ... even visit the client of the case on behalf of te case manager ..etc. usually case manager will make the final decision.
lawyers are extremely important since there will be situations that 基金会 run into legal troubles; also extremely important is for lawyers to work with people's comgrass in terms of veterans affair. well, most of lawyers are money suckers ..., it could be daunting task to recruit a good lawyer working for almost nothing ...
just like 范文 said, this 基金会 有助于在全社会形成拥军风尚，有助于消除军人后顾之忧。more, it is a great place for those young people who are in colledges or just graduated from colledges to start their careers (please don't question their motivition). with such platform, they will learn leadership skills(building organization infrastructure, etc); how to organize projects (such as trust fund for a specific case) and manage those projects; how to deal with people who need help; how to recruit new volunteers; how to make a case (deciding who needs help and how to help that person); how to manage the finance of an organization; how to generate new ideas for fundraising and put in action; writing proposals; writing case reports; making sure any activities are always walking inside of boundary of the law (great for law students); IT infrastructure (network, database ..etc)) ..
database, database ... i can't say enough on this. every case should be logged into database (paper or electronic)
don't expect people would work there for very long time. once young people (most of them) have enough experience for a certain area, they will move on, then new people will come in and continue the work. but it would be great place to start careeres for young generations and to learn that there are things sacret ..
the nature of none-goverment, none-profit, legal status and transparancy would greatly help its fundraising from those big companies (especially thse international companies) and overseas chinese communities.
again, thnaks 范文 for the translation.

ipfreak

"很感人`` 你发的帖子我都看过了`！！真的我只能用感动来形容我此刻的心情！我一特要好朋友（因为是小学刚上的时候，他的名字也不太记得了。挨`~~真该骂自己，后悔啊！哎！！！）的父亲就是一位复老山战斗过的英雄！记得小时侯总爱拉着他的各种勋章带在自己的身上，可从没有感觉过它有多重 多沉。只知道打我第一次见到这位伟大的父亲时，他便是个失去左腿的人！
后来他们因为家里没有劳动力，也缺少文化所以在大城市里无法继续生存，我的好朋友也最后只能辍学。至于后来的情况我也不太了解！因为我但时确实太小了！！（真的很后悔，为什么没有问他家的地址 挨`！！）直到我开始懂事了，张大了！再一次会想起当初接触 抚摩 感受那些用鲜血和生命换来的荣誉勋章时。我有一种莫名的伤感，为什么一个为祖国挥洒青春和鲜血而无怨无悔的人。会以这样的结局首尾，那些闪着金光的勋章确实很重，但是在他们一家现实的生活中又是那样~~~~~ 我不知道该说什么````荣誉是一辈子的 但是在荣誉背后我希望也是幸福的！因为他们曾经为祖国 为我们付出过所有！~~~~~"
that new case has proved my point. i rest my case ...

退役老兵

大姐：
    我看了你的照片和文字介绍后、心里很难过我也不知道说什么好。是啊，也许你说的对，还是靠自己的力量或者是说大家的力量来帮助那些英雄的家属吧。
    至于那场战争谁也说不清楚、是对还是错，让历史来评价吧。但那些牺牲了的的烈士是真实的。
    老姐，你是好人、向你敬礼！
   

bigworld

来到燃烧的血几个月了，直到今天才注册了一个用户名，第一次登陆进来发表一下我的感慨。关于这个烈士的老妈妈我昨天在另外一个网站也看到了报道。作为一个23岁的男人，我一直认为男人应该是流血不流泪，可是在燃烧的血已经几度流泪了。看到这个老妈妈我又忍不住流泪了，呵呵。
我爷爷奶奶都是经历了一辈子战火的革命军人，爷爷还是残疾军人，我父亲也在部队度过了最难忘的六年时光。我父亲是七十年代在广州军区的第145独立师服役。
我很想能够为这位老妈妈，及其他需要帮助的军属，军人作些什么。我现在身在加拿大，五月到八月会在中国，我不知道我该怎么作。希望可以由这里的室主代我转交我的心意！谢谢

bigworld

不好意思，刚刚我在这里发了一条跟帖，我可以没有说清楚我的意思。
我想请室主带我转交我的心意，是希望室主留下联系方法，
或者与我联系，我拿一些钱，麻烦室主帮忙转交给需要帮助的人。
谢谢了，我的QQ是：77334541

nazy

无语，拿出实际行动来支持

王拂晓

国家到哪儿去了？政府到哪儿去了？为了祖国的利益，他们献出了生命，奉献了青春，失去了父母妻儿，他们的遗属需要社会关注、关心、扶助时，社会、国家到哪儿去了？让人心痛！